Children vs Kids |
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Elder
Herman Clark |
From The Good
News Newsletter March 2010
Have
you noticed, how over a period of time, many words of the
English Language change in their meaning? For instance, in some
cases, "cool" has nothing to do with temperature. We, my
generation, thought we were "cool" when we wore our shirts
with the collar turned up, white "tee" shirts, pants with
the cuffs rolled up two or three folds, even a "narrow" and
I do mean narrow, white belt, hair worn in the style called
a duck tail, or a "flat top" and "chewed our Juicy Fruit
gum." Yeah, we were "cool," like man, we were very "cool."
We were "sharper than a tack, even a bantam rooster in combat
boots." Cool meant hot and hot meant we were cool. Does that
make sense? No, but we thought it did. Much could be said
about those days of Rock and Roll, the Blues, and Country
music. This brings to remembrance of Mr. Claude Curtis who
operated a small restaurant in Luka and his delicious
hamburgers. Yes, can one believe a Hamburger and a "pop" for
15 cents?
I want to bring something to your attention that I am guilty
of saying. No, it is not a curse word, which some spits out
of their mouths at a rapid pace revealing what is in their
heart, but the word that I use often is "Kids." I doubt that
many of you that read this article will or do commit such a
crime. You mean a breaking law crime? Yes a Crime! A crime
against those to whom we sometime call "Kids." It is a
common thing in our society today. I hear it on every hand
and at time I just want to cry. One can read in the
dictionary and find the word "kids" referring to a little
four legged animal called a goat. Think about it! Yes, one
can also find the word "kid" in the Webster's Dictionary and
quickly see that one of the meanings is "a small child."
The first and second meanings are dealing with animals
called goats. The last definition of the word referring to
goats and children has been added over a long period.
Let's think about the word "Children." We see immediately
that the word "Child" jumps out at first glance. We know
that Children are a gift from God. After all, you as man and
woman are responsible for "making" the precious little child
but they are a gift from God. Look at your child or
children. Do you really love them enough to use their given
name instead of some off the wall name?
Psalm 127:3-4 "Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD:
and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in
the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth."
Now "grandpa and grandma" we need to remember the following:
"Children's children are the crown of old men; and the
glory of children are their fathers." Proverbs 17:6. How
many of us have grandchildren and fail to understand that
they are the crown of old men? Do we realize that the glory
of children is their fathers? It really makes a Father or a
Grandfather smile when that offspring introduces them to
their friends. It is the same with Mothers and Grandmothers
and their daughters or sons.
A man was bragging several years ago about his little son
who was learning to talk. He bragged how he had taught his
little boy to say curse words and call his mother terrible
names. I felt sorry for the mother showing her fear of
correcting the little boy because of that boisterous windbag
husband. In fact I heard it with my own two ears and quickly
vacated the scene. The father thought that was really
something, teaching his son to act and talk "like dad."
Shame on a man that has no more care or respect for his wife
son or daughter than to do such, and the same goes for a
so-called mother! Surely that was the only dad that
ever did such. What do you think? Shame, shame on any dad
who does such! There was an old
saying I heard many times while growing up, that went
something like: "Little children have big ears." That was
saying that we sometime forget about young children in our
presence when we are conversing with others. They hear and
learn fast. My dear friends, I ask you the question, "Do you
call your children "kids" (goats)?" I hope not. Yes, I am
trying to break myself from referring to little children as
"Kids." Remember they are the offspring of their parents.
Are you as parents "speaking" and acting like "goats?"
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