Pastors Get Discouraged.

Sitting in a small group one Sunday morning wondering who would show for services and who wouldn’t, a couple of us began to discuss what would happen if the Pastor decided to take a day off. Other than the admonition for him in Acts 20:28 Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood, there is no greater obligation for a Pastor to appear than the members. Now every good pastor is going to immediately quote half a dozen scriptures he believes obligates him to his good service, but I’ve made my point.

As church members, we have a number of obligations, not only to the Lord, the church and our brothers and sisters in Christ, but to the Pastor. His is the most difficult job on the planet – and it’s a full time job that has to be performed by most Elders on a part time basis. Many have to work in the secular world to sustain their natural families.

Pastors are never allowed to be down, depressed or discouraged. They must always put on the best face and live by example. Their faith must appear to be unwavering, even when it falters. While all of us must be ready to give an answer of the reason for the hope within us, Pastors have to be ready to answer the most obscure questions on a moment’s notice. If 30 different members are studying 30 different subjects, half of them will have questions on Sunday.

It takes a special type of man to be a Pastor of a church. Many men can be Elders. Some are suited to teach, some to preach. Some are fishers of men, some are feeders of sheep. Some can care for the flock, and some can quite frankly scare the sheep away. That may be why when examining a man’s calling, we always look to make sure he didn’t volunteer.

The easy part of our obligation toward the Pastor is often the one most readily ignored. That’s prayer. No man on earth needs our prayers as much as the Bishop of the local congregation. We may lack in our financial support and not take care of his needs as we ought, but we should never let him down in our prayers. He and the Lord (and maybe his helpmate) are the only ones who truly know the burden he carries.

I was reading a story in the Old Testament once and having meditated on it for awhile, came to believe it ought to be preached in the charge for every Deacon’s ordination among Primitive Baptists. (I’ve always thought the charge should come before the laying on of hands in a Deacon’s ordination, because after he’s a Deacon, you can’t tell him anything.)

Exd 17:8-13 Then came Amalek, and fought with Israel in Rephidim.  :9 And Moses said unto Joshua, Choose us out men, and go out, fight with Amalek: to morrow I will stand on the top of the hill with the rod of God in mine hand. :10 So Joshua did as Moses had said to him, and fought with Amalek: and Moses, Aaron, and Hur went up to the top of the hill. :11 And it came to pass, when Moses held up his hand, that Israel prevailed: and when he let down his hand, Amalek prevailed.

:12 But Moses' hands [were] heavy; and they took a stone, and put [it] under him, and he sat thereon; and Aaron and Hur stayed up his hands, the one on the one side, and the other on the other side; and his hands were steady until the going down of the sun.  :13 And Joshua discomfited Amalek and his people with the edge of the sword.

It's one of those marvelous short stories in scripture. You can read it in less than a minute, but it impacts your life forever. Shortly before this is the famous “striking the rock in the wilderness” from which so many good sermons and sound doctrine have come. Most of us stop reading there and never get to the story of prevailing.

You don’t need me to tell you how today, the Pastor of the flock stands up with the rod of God in his hand. You know the church prospers and prevails when the Pastor is strong and supported. You also know how a church does when the Pastor is weak, whether in study, doctrine, preaching or discipline. Thank goodness Aaron and Hur helped stay up Moses’ hands. Of course you probably figured out the charge to the new Deacon as well.

We can’t always physically hold up the Pastor’s arms when he tires, but we can hold him up in prayer, encouragement, conversation, financially and by our behavior. Just seeing a church member walking on the straight and narrow path takes a load of responsibility and concern off a Pastor’s mind. How disheartening it is for a Pastor to look out into the small crowd, seeking a particular face and not seeing it. We have a reasonable service. And a light duty.

Brothers and sisters, if your Pastor doesn’t have the strength and personality of Moses, it might be because you aren’t being Aaron and Hur.

Are you praying for him?